What It Truly Means to Seek God With All Your Heart
🌿 The Right Way to Find God
“You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.” — Jeremiah 29:13 (NLT)
Many people are searching for God. Some travel from church to church. Some go from prophet to prophet. Some withdraw to mountains to fast for days. Others spend hours in prayer, hoping that somehow God will reveal Himself if they simply keep asking. But Jesus Christ has already shown us that finding God is not first about where you go. It is about the condition of the heart that is doing the searching.
🔎 It’s Not Where You Go, It’s How You Search
God did not simply say, “Seek Me.” He said, “Seek Me with all your heart.” That distinction changes everything, because it means it is possible to search for God without searching for Him the right way.
A person can visit every church in their city, sit under every prophet available to them, fast on every mountain their strength allows, and still miss God, if the heart doing all that searching is divided. Jeremiah 29:13 was not spoken into a vacuum. God gave that promise to a nation in exile, a people who had every reason to search for Him half-heartedly, distracted by loss, by displacement, by the temptation to trust in something closer at hand than a God who seemed silent. Into that exact situation, God did not lower the bar. He raised it. He told them the terms had not changed: wholehearted searching would still be met.
So what does it actually mean to search for God with all your heart? Scripture answers that question layer by layer, and every layer matters. Miss one, and the search continues without ever arriving.
On this page
- It’s not where you go, it’s how you search
- Searching for God begins with loving Him
- Why fasting and prayer are not a substitute for obedience
- God’s wisdom requires pursuit, not just hearing
- Jesus is the way to the God you’re searching for
- Searching for God also requires waiting
- Five who searched for God and found Him
- Are you searching for God’s hand or God’s heart?
- Six marks of a heart that finds God
- Prayer
❤️ Searching for God Begins With Loving Him
Jesus said:
“You must love the LORD your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.” — Matthew 22:37 (NLT)
Notice again: all your heart. God does not want a divided heart. The same heart we use to search for Him is the heart we must use to love Him. You cannot bring a fragmented, half-committed heart to the search and expect a whole God to be found by it.
But how do we know whether we truly love God, and not merely the idea of Him? Jesus answered that question directly:
“If you love me, obey my commandments.” — John 14:15 (NLT)
This means our search for God cannot be separated from our obedience to His Word. You search for God by loving Him, and you demonstrate your love for Him by obeying Him. These are not two separate activities running side by side. They are one movement of the heart, expressed two ways. Psalm 119:2 brings both halves together in a single verse:
“Joyful are those who obey his laws and search for him with all their hearts.” — Psalm 119:2 (NLT)
Notice the combination the Psalmist refuses to separate: obedience and wholehearted pursuit. The right way to find God is therefore not merely to search for His power, His miracles, His blessings, or His intervention. Search for Him through His Word, and obey what you find there. God is in His Word. The deeper your obedience to that Word, the deeper your relationship with Him becomes, because obedience is not the fee you pay to access God. It is the very shape a heart takes when it genuinely loves Him.
As Prophet TB Joshua said:
“Knowing God is not only seeing His works but learning His ways.” — Prophet TB Joshua
Seeing what God does will thrill you for a season. Learning how God thinks, why He acts the way He acts, what pleases Him and what grieves Him, is what actually draws you into relationship. A person can witness a miracle and walk away unchanged. A person cannot sit under the ways of God, obeying as they learn them, and remain the same.
🕯️ Why Fasting and Prayer Are Not a Substitute for Obedience
Today, someone may say, “I am going to the mountain to fast for forty days because I want to find God.” But fasting itself does not replace obedience. You can fast and still harbour unforgiveness in your heart. You can pray for hours and still knowingly disobey a specific instruction God has already given you. You can read the Bible every day and refuse to do what it says. Religious activity, however sincere, cannot substitute for a heart surrendered to God.
Even Jesus Christ did not simply decide, on His own initiative, to enter the wilderness and fast for forty days. Scripture is careful to tell us He was led by the Spirit into that place.
“Then Jesus was led by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil.” — Matthew 4:1 (NIV)
The fasting that mattered was not self-initiated performance. It was obedience to a specific leading. Your fasting, your vigils, your extended prayer times, should flow out of your relationship with God as an act of obedience to what He has already told you, not become a substitute for the obedience you have been avoiding elsewhere in your life.
Before asking, “How long should I fast?” perhaps the first question should be: “What has God already told me to do that I have not obeyed?” No amount of days on a mountain will answer a question that only surrendered obedience can settle. It is worth asking honestly, because it is possible to be very religious and still be searching for God in exactly the wrong direction. If you have never examined what genuinely separates activity from intimacy in your own walk, How do you maintain your relationship with God? is a useful place to continue that examination.
Think of two believers who both fast for the same three days. One spends those days rehearsing an unresolved offense against a relative, deciding all over again that forgiveness is not yet required of them. The other spends those days reviewing an instruction God gave months earlier that they have been quietly avoiding, and by the end of the fast, they act on it. Both fasted. Both went hungry. Only one actually searched. The difference was never the intensity of the discipline. It was whether the discipline was pointed at obedience or used to avoid it.
📖 God’s Wisdom Requires Pursuit, Not Just Hearing
God has deliberately arranged His Kingdom in such a way that we must seek Him, not merely hear about Him. Jesus Himself sometimes spoke in parables, and the disciples heard the very same words as everybody else in the crowd. But they came back to Jesus afterward and asked Him privately for understanding. Why did they bother? Because hearing was not enough for them. They wanted to understand, and understanding required them to return and ask.
There are things God will place before you, in His Word, in a dream, in a season of your life, that require you to come back to Him and say, “Lord, what does this mean?” This is exactly why the Psalmist prayed:
“Open my eyes to see the wonderful truths in your instructions.” — Psalm 119:18 (NLT)
And again:
“Help me understand the meaning of your commandments, and I will meditate on your wonderful deeds.” — Psalm 119:27 (NLT)
God’s wisdom requires pursuit. You read. You meditate. You ask. You wait. You obey. And gradually, what was hidden begins to become clear. Prophet TB Joshua put the same principle in a single warning:
“God will not open the door of wisdom to the one who keeps his Bible shut.” — Prophet TB Joshua
A closed Bible is a closed door, no matter how loudly a person prays outside of it. Wisdom is not handed to the passive. It is given to the pursuing. This is precisely why James could tell scattered believers, in the middle of real hardship, that wisdom was available to anyone who genuinely asked for it: “If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you” (James 1:5, NLT). The asking James describes is not a single sentence tossed toward heaven and forgotten. It is the same posture the Psalmist modeled across all of Psalm 119, returning again and again to the same Word, asking the same God the same honest question until light finally came.
✝️ Jesus Is the Way to the God You’re Searching For
Searching for God is not searching blindly, hoping to stumble onto Him in the dark. Jesus said plainly:
“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me.” — John 14:6 (NLT)
Jesus is the way to God. Therefore, when we search for God, we are not looking for some mysterious spiritual experience floating outside of Christ. We come through Jesus Christ. We remain in His Word. We follow His Spirit, and we obey His commands. This is why Jesus also said:
“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.” — Matthew 6:33 (NLT)
Notice the promise attached: everything else is added when the Kingdom itself becomes the primary search. When you find Christ, you find the way to the Father, and in Him you find eternal life. This is also why searching for God apart from His Word so often leads people into confusion, chasing spiritual experiences that feel powerful but carry no lasting fruit, because the search was never anchored to the One who said He is, exclusively, the way.
⏳ Searching for God Also Requires Waiting
There is another part of searching for God that many of us struggle with: waiting. Lamentations 3:25 says:
“The LORD is good to those who depend on him, to those who search for him.” — Lamentations 3:25 (NLT)
You may genuinely seek God with a sincere heart and yet not receive the answer immediately. What do you do then? Wait. Do not manufacture an answer because God appears silent. Do not take a shortcut because His timing feels slow. Do not turn to the right or to the left because impatience has crept in. Wait quietly before Him. Isaiah 40:31 says:
“But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.” — Isaiah 40:31 (KJV)
Searching for God requires enough faith to seek Him and enough patience to wait until He answers. Prophet TB Joshua often addressed this exact tension between sincere seeking and impatient demanding:
“Be patient. Let God answer your question on His schedule, not yours.” — Prophet TB Joshua
Your schedule was never the standard by which God moves. The moment you accept that, waiting stops feeling like abandonment and starts feeling like trust.
🧭 Five Who Searched for God and Found Him
Scripture is not short of examples of people who searched for God the right way, and found Him precisely because their search matched what God had already asked for.
Abraham searched for God with obedience that had no visible payoff attached to it. When God told him to take Isaac, the son of promise, and offer him on the mountain, Abraham did not negotiate or delay.
“Take your son, your only son, whom you love… and offer him.” — Genesis 22:2 (NIV)
Abraham obeyed without knowing how the story would end. His search for God was not a search for explanations. It was a willingness to trust the One he was searching for more than the promise that Person had already given him.
Hannah searched for God through years of barrenness, when a shortcut would have been easy to justify. She could have envied Peninnah’s fruitfulness, resented her own situation, or tried to manufacture her own solution. Instead, she poured her heart out before the Lord in prayer, year after year, refusing to let delay talk her out of waiting.
“In her deep anguish Hannah prayed to the LORD, weeping bitterly.” — 1 Samuel 1:10 (NIV)
What came out of that patient search was not just a child, but Samuel, a prophet who would anoint two kings of Israel.
Daniel searched for understanding, not merely for information. When he encountered a prophecy he did not fully grasp, he did not shrug and move on. He turned to prayer, fasting, and pursuit of God until clarity came.
“So I turned to the Lord God and pleaded with him in prayer and petition, in fasting.” — Daniel 9:3 (NIV)
Daniel’s search modeled exactly what Psalm 119:27 asks for: help me understand, and I will meditate. He did not settle for hearing a mystery. He pursued its meaning.
Mary, the mother of Jesus, searched for God through simple, immediate surrender the moment His will was made clear to her.
“I am the Lord’s servant. May your word to me be fulfilled.” — Luke 1:38 (NIV)
Her search required no long season of pursuit because her heart was already positioned to obey the instant God spoke. That readiness is itself a form of wholehearted seeking, the kind that does not need to be talked into obedience once the word finally comes.
Joseph searched for God in the one place searching is hardest: betrayal, false accusation, and years forgotten in an Egyptian prison. Nothing about his circumstances suggested God was near. His brothers had sold him. Potiphar’s wife had lied about him. The cupbearer he helped forgot him for two full years. Yet Scripture records no bitterness in Joseph’s search, only a continued nearness to God that outsiders could plainly see.
“The LORD was with Joseph, so he succeeded in everything he did.” — Genesis 39:23 (NLT)
Joseph could have concluded that God had abandoned his search, since every circumstance argued for it. Instead, when he finally stood before Pharaoh, his search had produced a man who could say to the brothers who wronged him, “You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good” (Genesis 50:20, NLT). That is what a search for God’s heart, rather than God’s hand, looks like when the hand seems closed for years at a time.
Five different searches. Five different seasons. One shared pattern: each person’s search matched the terms God had already set, obedience without full explanation, patience through delay and injustice, pursuit of understanding, and instant surrender when clarity came. None of them searched for God by changing location. They searched for Him by changing posture, and location had almost nothing to do with what they found.
🤲 Are You Searching for God’s Hand or God’s Heart?
The Psalmist prayed something worth pausing over:
“Give me an eagerness for your laws rather than a love for money!” — Psalm 119:36 (NLT)
What are you really searching for? God Himself, or what you hope God will give you? There is a real difference between seeking God’s hand and seeking God’s heart, and it is worth being honest with yourself about which one you are actually pursuing.
The test is simple, even if the answer is uncomfortable. If God gave you everything you are currently asking Him for today, right now, would your pursuit of Him continue tomorrow with the same intensity, or would it quietly taper off once the need was met? A search that only exists because of a need is not wrong to begin, need is often exactly what drives us to our knees in the first place, but it was never meant to stay there. God uses the hand to draw us toward the heart. He does not intend for the hand to become the whole relationship.
| Seeking God’s Hand | Seeking God’s Heart | |
|---|---|---|
| What it wants | Miracles, breakthrough, provision, answers | God Himself, His presence, His ways |
| What sustains it | Results and how quickly they arrive | Relationship, whether or not results have arrived yet |
| What happens in delay | Frustration, doubt, searching elsewhere | Deeper trust, continued obedience |
| What it produces | Temporary satisfaction tied to circumstance | Lasting intimacy that does not depend on circumstance |
| Biblical example | The crowds who followed Jesus for bread (John 6:26) | Mary of Bethany, who chose to simply sit at His feet (Luke 10:39) |
A person can pursue miracles, breakthrough, prosperity, and deliverance without genuinely pursuing the One who gives them. None of those things are wrong to desire. But if the search stops the moment the gift arrives, it was never a search for God at all. It was a search for what God could produce.
What practical searching for God’s heart looks like:
- Return to obedience before you return to petition. Before asking God for the next thing, settle what He has already asked of you.
- Read His Word to know Him, not only to find your next promise. A verse memorized for comfort is different from a life shaped by understanding.
- Let unanswered prayer draw you closer instead of pushing you toward other options. Delay is often the very moment your search reveals what it was really after.
- Ask what pleases God in this season, not only what you need from Him in this season. The question itself reorients the whole search.
💗 Six Marks of a Heart That Finds God
Scripture, taken together, shows us the qualities of a heart that truly searches for God the right way. None of these six marks stand alone. Obedience without patience becomes legalism that grows resentful when God delays. Patience without obedience becomes passive waiting that never actually moves toward Him. Meditation without a willingness to be corrected becomes intellectual study that never touches the will. It is the combination, held together over time, that Jeremiah 29:13 is actually describing when it says “with all your heart.”
1. Obedience
You cannot deliberately reject God’s Word while claiming to search for the God who gave it. Psalm 119 teaches:
“How can a young person stay pure? By obeying your word.” — Psalm 119:9 (NLT)
“I have hidden your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you.” — Psalm 119:11 (NIV)
Obedience brings our lives under the authority of God’s Word, and Prophet TB Joshua stated the outcome of that submission plainly:
“The way of obedience is the way of blessing.” — Prophet TB Joshua
2. No Compromise
“They do not compromise with evil, and they walk only in his paths.” — Psalm 119:3 (NLT)
A divided heart cannot search wholeheartedly. If God says one thing but we deliberately choose another because it is more convenient, our focus has become split between two masters. Prophet TB Joshua described exactly what that split does to a person’s walk with God:
“Each time you act on the Word of God, you step closer to God and hear His voice clearer, but each time you focus on this world and choose worldly consideration above God, you step closer to satan.” — Prophet TB Joshua
There is no neutral middle ground in that movement. Every act either draws you closer or moves you further away.
3. Love God’s Word More Than Material Gain
Already quoted above, Psalm 119:36 asks for an eagerness for God’s laws rather than a love for money. A person can pursue miracles, breakthrough, prosperity, and deliverance without genuinely pursuing the One who gives them, as covered in the section above on God’s hand versus God’s heart.
4. Patience
God does not always reveal everything immediately. Sometimes searching means remaining before Him until understanding comes. Do not force revelation. Do not manufacture God’s voice out of impatience. Wait on Him, the way Hannah waited, the way the Psalmist in Lamentations 3:25 describes those who depend on Him.
5. A Willingness to Be Corrected
If you genuinely search for God, you must also be willing for Him to show you where you are wrong. We cannot say, “Lord, reveal Yourself to me,” while refusing, “Lord, change me.” Sometimes the God you are searching for will first reveal something in you that must change before He reveals what you were originally searching for. His correction is part of His relationship with you, not a detour from it.
6. Meditation and Revelation
Finally, searching for God requires more than reading His Word with your eyes. You must take it into your heart. The Psalmist prayed for eyes to see the wonderful truths in God’s instructions (Psalm 119:18), and then for understanding so that meditation could follow (Psalm 119:27). That is revelation, then meditation, then obedience, then more revelation. Prophet TB Joshua described this exact cycle:
“If you take God’s word to heart and truly make it a part of you by meditation, it will by its very nature change you and when it does, you will soon be called to act with God.” — Prophet TB Joshua
You read God’s Word. You obey what you understand. You meditate on what you have received. You ask Him for understanding concerning what you do not yet understand. And you wait for Him to give you clear light.
Search Until You Find Him
People of God, God is not hiding from those who genuinely want Him. He has already given us the promise: “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart” (Jeremiah 29:13). But searching for God with all your heart means more than searching for an experience. It means loving Him with all your heart, obeying Him with all your heart, meditating on His Word, refusing compromise, accepting His correction, and patiently waiting for Him.
Proverbs 8:17 says:
“I love all who love me. Those who search will surely find me.” — Proverbs 8:17 (NLT)
So perhaps the question is not, “God, where are You?” Perhaps the real question is, “Am I searching for You with all my heart?” Because when the heart is divided between God’s will and our own will, we may search without ever finding. But when we surrender our whole heart to Him, loving His Word, obeying His commands, seeking His understanding, and patiently waiting upon Him, we are searching for God the way He Himself told us to search.
Notice that Jeremiah 29:13 does not say you will seek Him and eventually stumble upon Him by chance. It says you will find Him, as a direct consequence of how you sought Him in the first place. That is not a vague spiritual encouragement. It is a conditional promise with a stated condition attached, and the condition has never changed since the day it was first given to a scattered, exiled people who needed to hear it. Search for Him through His Word. Love Him through obedience. Wait for Him with patience. Seek Him with all your heart. And He has already promised: you will find Him.
🙏 Prayer
Lord, I want to search for You the right way, not merely for Your hand but for Your heart. Forgive me for the times I have treated obedience as optional while calling myself a seeker. Teach me to love Your Word, to wait without manufacturing my own answers, and to accept Your correction as mercy, not rejection. Give me a heart undivided, so that when I seek You, I truly find You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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